My weight seems to have been an issue for as long as I can remember. Not that I actually had an issue with it when I was a mere slip of a girl. Until I was in my mid twenties I was a very petite size 8. Perfect for my five foot frame. But I grew up very aware that if I ate too much then I would end up like many on my mum’s side of the family..fat! My mum was always, and still is at 78 on a diet. She is a consummate yoyo dieter!
Skinny me in my mid twenties. Hard to believe that I felt I needed to diet then!
I have diaries from years back that record how many calories I had consummed. I laugh now at entries that state 1000 cals eaten. Weight..8st 1 lb! Totally mad!
Post babies I began to expand in all directions except up! One minute I was this little thing and the next I had turned into a Weeble!Weebles wobble but they don’t fall down!
So, to cut a long story short, I have pretty much been on one long unsuccessful diet for the last 20 years. Lose a few pounds here, gain a lot more there. Up, down, up, down..yoyoing like billy-o.
I don’t want to diet anymore. I don’t want to count calories, count points, drink horrible shakes or be a slave to the scales. I do want to lose weight. I need to, but not by dieting. I want to change my eating habits for the better, be more active without feeling that I need to suddenly start training for a marathon and basically get healthier. Hopefully by making changes I will slowly, but steadily start shrinking and feel better for it.
So, this is my plan.
STOP
- eating biscuits like they were going out of fashion
- don’t wait until 5pm at the weekend to eat.
- Eat earlier, not past 9pm
- Think that I need to put as much food on my plate as Graham’s. He’s 6ft 6 and is very active. He needs to eat more than I do!
- Going to bed at stupid times. After midnight every night is just silly!
- cut down on sugary foods
- cut out ready meals. I am a good cook..make the most of that!
- feeling negative about myself
START
- positive thoughts all the way
- increase my fruit and vegetable intake
- drink more ..and I don’t mean wine!
- be more active
- Don’t deny myself the odd little treat. Remenber its a treat, not a daily staple
- use a small plate!
- start a clean eating plan
Eat clean? I can hear you say. Does Brigitte have a food hygeine problem? Eating clean on this occasion has nothing to do with making sure that you’ve rinsed your fruit and veg, or not slicing your tomatoes on your raw meat chopping board! Clean eating means eating foods that come from nature. Fresh fruit and vegetables, whole grains, nuts and seeds, lentils and beans, lean meat and fish and healthy fats. It means ditching the highly processed foods that are high in refined sugar, salt, additives, preservatives, preservatives and trans fats.
I first came across The Kitchen Shed when having a browse on twitter. I opened the link to a blog and was instantly hooked. The Kitchen Shed is written by Charlie, a mum who is training to be a nutritionist. Her blog is all about clean eating and is jam packed with information, recipes and ideas. I loved her food philosophy, and her 30 day challenge. Here was a healthy way to eat that meant you could never be hungry, feel energised, know exactly what you are eating (no hidden nasties) and have the option of taking three flexi days. I like a challenge, so I thought, why not..let’s go for it!
So that’s just what I’m doing and at the end of each week I’ll give you an update. And now it’s time to go. I have a roasted vegetable with wholemeal pasta to prepare!
Until next time
Brigitte xx
Good for you! We are right behind you! I bought brown rice today as the first step to change our eating…the first of many steps I hope.
LikeLike
Thank you! Good luck with taking the plunge. I love brown rice and anything wholewheat. Cutting out refined sugar is going to be my stumbling block. x
LikeLike
I did a similar thing about 10 years ago and kept to the healthy eating for years but allowed myself to eat things I liked sometimes. I’m not skinny but I’m happier with how I am. I’ve put on a few pounds here and there but kept myself busy and exercised as much as I can. I’m retired now and it’s so much easier, no tempting biscuits and cakes at work. We now do a sort of 5:2 diet, have a couple of days of minimal food, if we feel a bit porky. Just wanted you to know it does work. Good luck to you and I love your blog it makes me laugh and will encourage me when I slip.
LikeLike
Thank you for reading my blog Sue. I’m so glad you enjoyed it. It means a lot to me that people read it and then hours it takes to type it with one finger is well worth it. I have two friends who follow the 5:2 diet and have had fantastic results. I was tempted but I really don’t want to “diet” and just want to eat healthily and feel more energised. Hopefully a few pounds will drop off at the same time. I need to get out and exercise more, but that’s going to need a lot of willpower as to be honest, I really don’t like exercising at all. No wonder then that I’ve got curvier as times gone by!
LikeLike
Good for you, mum! I’ve always thought that getting too worked up over how much and what you’re eating just gets counterproductive, but then I’m hardly the most qualified person on this topic. Still, positive thoughts are always the best way to go!
(But if you need some help removing temptation and lightning up your snack cupboard, do feel free to drop by anytime~)
LikeLike
As far as getting worked up how much to eat, you have no need to worry there! But I know that what you eat is an issue with you. Of course you may raid the post Christmas goodies stash. They need to go to a good home! xx
LikeLike